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Plus ones

SonaliPopSonaliPop member
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How many friends who are coming are you letting bring someone with them as a date? I was thinking I'd only give a plus one in the invitation if they are in a serious relationship with someone. I think a wedding is a situation where everybody is pleasant enough to talk to everybody and I would seat them with people of their own age if they came alone. How are you guys handling this?
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Re: Plus ones

  • Jeff and DeepthiJeff and Deepthi
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    edited December 2011
    We are just doing plus one to people that we know their SO. I don't want a bunch of random people there and I have "groups" of friends coming so if they don't have a date they have people they know and hang out with so they won't be lonely.
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  • raangoliraangoli
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    edited December 2011
    Since we are "older" we only have a few people that fall into this category, so we are letting them bring a guest. All of our friends know each other, but I would hate for the people without significant others to feel even worse when they are at a wedding and surrounded by other couples.
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  • HisBelovedOneHisBelovedOne
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    edited December 2011
    I'm with raangoli here. We only have maybe 5 or 6 unmarried/unattached guests (three teenage relatives and a couple friends), so we're allowing them each a plus one.
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  • Bhanu&AnujBhanu&Anuj member
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    edited December 2011

    Hey Sonali...I did exactly what you did...only put a + 1 for someone if I knew they were in a serious relationship or in a relationship.

    I actually had a friend ask if she can bring a friend :S At first she said ...can I bring a guest and I felt terrible b/c I didn't know she was seeing someone...but then she told me it was a female friend of hers....I felt bad saying anything other than sure :S

    It was a little awkward...but I'm of the opinion that + 1 is reserved SO/spouse/partner

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  • Bhanu&AnujBhanu&Anuj member
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    edited December 2011

    Hey Sonali...I did exactly what you did...only put a + 1 for someone if I knew they were in a serious relationship or in a relationship.

    I actually had a friend ask if she can bring a friend :S At first she said ...can I bring a guest and I felt terrible b/c I didn't know she was seeing someone...but then she told me it was a female friend of hers....I felt bad saying anything other than sure :S

    It was a little awkward...but I'm of the opinion that + 1 is reserved SO/spouse/partner

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  • jnsainijnsaini
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    edited December 2011

    Hey Sonali

    I dont know FI's side (friends) so I left the option open for them since I have no idea who is in relationship and who is not, but for my side I know who all is coming.

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