Help!!! So, one of my bridesmaids is wanting to throw the couple shower for FH and me. This is perfectly okay with me, however, she tells me that I have NO say so in any of the planning. She wants to have the shower at her house -- which is about an hour drive for everyone that we would invite. I'm not okay with this...it is a big inconvience for the guest. So, FH asked his sister if the shower could be hosted at her house since she lives just minutes from everyone. My bridesmaid blows up on me and tells me that I have NO right to make any plans or details of the party. Now, I know when you are the host of a party, it is your responsibility to take care of everything....but shouldn't the bride and groom have a little say so in some of the details?
AND -- I've been told by this same bridesmaid that I have NO say so in any of the bachelorette planning and what is planned. She has assumed that we will be going to the beach just bc FH's parents have a place there so it'd be free. Understandable....however, I used to live there and don't care to go back. I feel that I am the bride...it is my wedding...and I have the right for input.
Anybody have any ideas??