My sisters are being pains in the asses to begin with...very negative people and I am one that looks to the positive. Middle sister is my MOH and is complaining about the cost tux rental for her son. Ummm, I told her he doesn't have to be an usher and I paid for
her dress. I should've just picked someone else. She just complains about everything...I really just don't want to hear it, I have my own problems (not WR and nothing major).
My oldest sister has been poo-pooing this wedding from the start. How can you afford it, why are you getting married, etc. Yea. Coming from someone who is divorced. Grrr. Her most recent rant, and I flipped out on her, was she started getting loud with me about taking my mother to get her dress. I am, basically, my mother's care-giver. We moved in with her last year because the doctors 'thought' she had a stroke...she did not, it was another issue, she was having dizzy spells. The rehab facility said she needed someone at her house with her in case of falling (she's 85)...still because they think she had a stroke. They didn't figure out what the real problem was until she went to another doctor after she was released. Well, to make a long story longer, she no longer has the issues they thought she would and I was guilted into moving in. I don't get along with my mother...never have.
So, sister starts on me about my mother's dress, how she keeps saying she doesn't know what she's going to wear. Why am I the only one to do this?? I have 2 sisters, one brother and a SIL. Ummm, a little help here...she's your mother too. I took her to a department store last week b/c she wanted a new outfit. They have an evening gown section. I thought I would pull a few dresses off the rack to see what she likes...nope, she had no interest and only wanted to do what she came in for. "yeah, that's nice. Its the wrong size", she says and turns and walks away. Oh yeah, she's worried about what to wear. Its just something else for her to comaplain about to my sisters.
I can't wait to have this wedding, but most of all...the HM!!! I need to get away!
Thank you, if you made it this far. I just needed to vent...I don't know why, maybe stress, that this past week just kinda set me off. I mean. I deal with this nonsense everyday. And I mean, this petty little crap goes on alllllll the time. I usually just brush it off and go on with my day, but it's starting to get to me.
Ahhhh, thanks for letting me vent! And sorry if there's any typos...I was typing like a mad woman! lol