So I may sound a little pitiful in this post, but this bridesmaid has really hurt me tonight
I posted a while ago about a my bridesmaids dresses. I thought they were a solid/safe choice, but two of my six girls were very vocal about not liking them, but refused to go shopping with me or allow us to raise the budget (which is their right). One girl eventually decided she liked it after trying it on, but the other---who is about 100 lbs over weight, remained very nasty about the dresses and stopped speaking to me (we will call her Mary). I talked it over with my mom and a sales consultant and picked a new dress that was even cheaper and would probably me more flattering. The bridesmaids were happy/didn't care, but I'm a little bummed.
Well, tonight I was speaking to a close mutual friend of mine and Mary's. Apparently Mary has spent the last several weeks telling this friend how I have horrible taste and picked the worst bridesmaid dress ever and she was going to be so embarrassed to wear it and that it was tacky and that she was so glad that "Susan finally came to her senses and did what I wanted her to---which is pick the dress that I want." I am so hurt! What ever happened to "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all?" We are grown women! Why does she feel the need to be so nasty and talk behind my back like that and give me the silent treatment?!
I haven't said anything to Mary about this, and I doubt I will. I just wanted to share with someone because FI is really over bridesmaid dress drama.
Original dress/color: (it's not
that bad, is it?)
And the new dress/color: