Okay Ladies, here is my situationI’m getting married in less than a month and it seems as though three out of my five BM have decided it would be a great idea to start causing any type of fight possible.My sister who is my MOH and my FSIL absolutely hate one another. They have now had four massive blow-ups which have resulted in both sets of parents getting involved and even my FI and I getting dragged into it. Not only have I been in both their weddings and did what every bridesmaid/MOH does which is doing what’s asked of you and smile. But I also bit my tongue to the rude remarks and bridezilla behaviour that was thrown my way by not only them but their bridal parties as well, why you ask because that what you do for your friends and family when you agree to be in someone’s wedding! I’m also going to add in here that they are both 30yrs old and are acting like 5yr olds. To make the matter worse my FSIL called on my MOH at my bachelorette party, liquid courage much?They have helped turn this bridal planning experience into the worst experience of my life; they fight over the stupidest things such as, which dress I chose and length. My FSIL wanted to wear a long dress because she thinks her legs look fat in tea length dresses. My sister had to pick out the dresses because she said my style is flashy and tacky which made the shopping experience dreadful! She and I have two completely different styles and likes when it comes to clothing, but nevertheless I gave in and let her pick out the dresses which I actually do like.As for the third BM, she was picked by my fiancé to be in the wedding. She is his BM wife; she and I aren’t what I would call friends but more so acquaintances. We are definitely not each other’s cup of tea. My FI was her husband’s BM back in April and I was also a BM. I truly believe I was only asked to be a BM because we had gotten engaged before them and had asked them 3 weeks before they got engaged to be in our wedding. It has been a complete competition with her when it came to both our weddings. She refers to our wedding as the barnyard wedding because we live in a little town in the country, where they live in a big city. She has made numerous comments about how her ring is bigger than mine, how she spent over $10,000.00 on her wedding dress yet mine ONLY cost 1,200.00 (I think it’s awesome that I got my dream dress for an amazing price) She also felt the need to tell me that when she was dress shopping she saw the same wedding dress that I had gotten and had tried it on, she told me how ugly it was on her and hopefully I would look better in it. She has turned into every bride’s worst nightmare. She had refused to attend either of my showers and didn’t come to my bachelorette either, mind you I didn’t go to hers only because my fiancé was laid off for 7months right around their wedding and it was his responsibility to pay for the entire stag for the groom and we couldn’t afford for me to go away for her bachelorette as well since they were both on the same weekend and both out of town. She makes rude remarks to the other bridesmaids and has even trashed the fact that our reception is at a country club appose to a banquet hall like theirs was. She told me two weeks ago that she hopes everything turns out okay because you get what you pay for, what does that mean? That’s correct we didn’t spend over $100,000.00 on our wedding like they did but that doesn’t mean our will be a disaster does it? I have been a DIY bride this whole process to save some money and she stuck her nose up at me about it and told me not to ask her to help because it wasn’t her thing, that she had hired someone to do the work for her when it came to her wedding so what would she help with mine.I guess I’m just at the end of my rope when it comes to dealing with both of these situations, I feel you should get back what you gave out but I don’t seem to be getting the same respect I gave. I just wanted this to be a fun experience not a nightmare.
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