Hey y'all, our wedding is July 31,2010 and according to the knots checklist we need to start looking into Grooms Dinner venues. So I emailed my mom, FI mom and step mom. His dad and stepmom wanted to have it at their house and BBQUE which sounded perfect to me. His mom doesnt want that because she used to live at that house with his dad a long time ago. His parents have been divorced for at least 20 years. But for her it would still be uncomfortable, even though she is happily married to his step dad. I somewhat understand, but still think it would be nice and cheap to have it at his dads and stepmoms.
These were the ideas:
Patricks Cafe in Edina (I wanted)
Fudruckers in Edina (FI really wanted)
Timberlodge (too expensive and formal)
Magios in Southdale (" ")
most recenly PF Changs. I got an e-mail from FI step mother yesterday that his mom was going to look into PF Changs. At first I was a little upset because she didnt even ask us if we would want it there. Then today I get an e-mail from his mom saying she booked the Grooms Dinner at PF Changs. I was freaking out..she didnt even talk to us about it at all. I have never eaten there. Not everyone likes Chinese. I called my mom to vent and she said it is the Grooms dinner so let the groom decide. What do yall think? His dad and stepmom are giving us $5,000 and mom and step dad giving us $5,000. HIs dad and stepmom said grooms dinner would not be counted towards the 5,000, but I think his mom wants to count it in the 5,000. She also doesnt want favors but his step mother insists on favors.
I am curious what you girls think about the situation? Would PF Changs be a good place to have grooms dinner? I have never been there.
Thanks!