Hello,
I know I don't write on here often, but I read daily...lol. My FMIL is trying to drive me and FI crazy! Our current guest list is almost at 200 and is growing daily! Our goal was to keep the guest list at 150 or lower. Well, a lot of people have been suggesting that we have two receptions, a cake reception immediately following the ceremony at the church where everyone and their momma can come and later on have a formal dinner reception at a different location. That plan sounded great to FI and my family... well FMIL was not feeling that idea... in fact she went off about how it would be an embarrassent to her family, and her community (she is Kenyan) for her son to not invite everyone to the wedding, and about how no one should eat cake before dinner (even though we would have a cake at the dinner reception too--- so she wouldn't be forced to eat cake before dinner). Now, keep in mind that FMIL is not paying a dime for anything besides the rehearsal dinner,,,which I am still keeping my fingers crossed about.
So our solution was to split the guest list up completely and give both her and my parents a total of 45 people to invite (FI and I would invite the rest). If anyone of them wants to invite extra people they will have to give us a check to accomodate those individuals. What do you guys think? Was our idea to have two receptions stupid? HELP!!!