Where is my fun-loving FI and give him back to me please. Seriously, the last couple weeks, and even worse this week, has been chaotic and has really shown the ugly side of us, more of him than I had ever imagined. Of course i've seen him grumpy before, but his attitude and decisions are driving me bonkers! Can everything on left on our list just magically finish itself and it be October 13th this weekend...wishful thinking.
I always worried that I would be too controlling on everything, and some things i'm kind of being a perfectionist, while a lot of others are way out of etiquette, but it seems lately my decisions aren't good enough with my FI and he wants to totally redo different things. The biggest thing that i'm stressing about is that he might scare our DJ away with his 'set' playlist he made, and i'm not talking about a few songs here and there, but for the whole darn night! He even made a remark that hes going to give someone a copy and make sure he plays exactly what he wants during the cocktail hour. He has taken this one main task I gave him to a whole other level.
There are so many other things I could go on, but it would take up a lot of space. Anyone else having some 'groomzilla' moments? I'm thinking an early trip to the Orchard for wine should be in order very soon!
