Hi there! My FI and I are meeting with the pastor tomorrow, and we are a little nervous. We both were baptized and had communion, but never confirmed. We both however have always wanted to be married in the church, are willing to undergo any steps necessary. We are having our reception close to 2 hours away, and are hoping to find a church in that area that will marry us. We found one willing to meet with us, but we do not know what to expect.
FI is concerned about what questions we will be asked and how to answer them. We live together, and know that is frowned upon before marriage. A married friend told us to lie when answering these sort of questions or they may not marry us, however I am not comfortable lying to a pastor. What types of questions should we expect?