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What would you do?

I've pretty much finished writing all of the thank you notes for our wedding. H has a cousin that comes from a large family and that we are quite close to. Some of the cousin's siblings went on a gift together for us, but it does not seem that we got a gift from this particular cousin. That is certainly fine, by no means do we expect gifts from our guests, but knowing this cousin, it is a bit odd that we did not get anything from her. I'm wondering if maybe her name was also to be included in the gift from some of her other siblings.  I certainly don't want to not thank her if she was a part of that gift, but how could we find out?  She's the one that we're closet to, so to call some of the other siblings to ask may actually be a bit awkward for various reasons... any ideas, or should I just let it go?

Re: What would you do?

  • edited December 2011
    I know this doesn't work for everyone, but my family is very close, so we either ask directly or play telephone. Basically, I would mention it to my mom (or cousin that I'm very close to), she would ask her sister (or her mom), who would find out from the cousins what happened and get back to me.  I know this wouldn't work for all families, but mine isn't really offended by anything, so that's where I'm coming from. If you're close to your MIL you could ask her advice.
  • tpender13tpender13 member
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I would just let it go. I would just send her a "thank you for coming" and forget about it.
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  • wittyschaffywittyschaffy member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Ditto the "Thanks for coming, it meant the world to us to celebrate with you' route.  I had a guest I am reasonably sure gave us a gift card but I wasn't positive and my sister had spaced out during her duties as recorder.  I sent them a "Thanks for coming" thank you to be on the safe side.
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