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are you willing to admit..... (FUN!!)

nmccrarynmccrary member
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in Louisiana-New Orleans
let's have some fun!!!

who are you most dreading having at your wedding?

what's your biggest wedding planning annoyance?

what do you wish your fiance would understand?

if you could have your way, what would your wedding *really* be like?



i totally don't want my fiance's mom or stepdad at the wedding.  we don't get along and even though we have a son that is almost 2, she has never come to see him.  i can tell she's going to be a momzilla about the wedding.

my biggest annoyance is that i don't live in the city i'm getting married in.

i wish my fiance would understand that getting a dress for $250 is a STEAL!!

if i had it my way....i might not get married!  LOL.
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  • TrulydPrincessTrulydPrincess member
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    LOL...okay:
    Dreading my aunts from my dad's side (so messt and nosy)
    biggest annoyance...so disappointed with the dj I found, but silly me already signed a contract with him
    wish that my fiance would understand that I really need him to help out a bit more with problem control
    if I could have what I really wanted, everything would be available on the date I chose and people would be genuinely happy for us

    The end.  Well, that felt good.  AND A $250 IS AN AWESOME DEAL!  KUDOS!!
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  • TrulydPrincessTrulydPrincess member
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    On second thought, my biggest annoyance is having asked 2 girls to be my bridesmaids.  I thought that they were my friends, but they just made it clear that it is their way or no way.
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  • mdupon70997mdupon70997 member
    100 Comments 5 Love Its Name Dropper First Anniversary
    Oooh! This is fun (and a release).

    There really isn't anyone in particular that I'm dredding having at my wedding.

    The biggest annoyance for me is that I can't afford to invite 100 more people for my wedding. We could only afford to invite 150...and from the looks of the RSVP's we will have almost 95% attendane. I'm also getting married during the middle of the school semester.

    I wish my fiance would understand that flowers are actually imoprtant.

    If I could have it my way my wedding would be a romatic but fun 250 guest black tie optional affair at the Tea Room with flowers and fabric everywhere.
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  • nolacarolinenolacaroline
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    Who are you most dreading having at your wedding? Not really a who, but RAIN! I've been watching the weather forecast, and it's gone from severe all-day thunderstorms to 0% chance of rain to overcast and possible thunderstorms. So who knows. Hoping it's a beautiful weekend with as little bad weather as possible. But what bride doesn't!?!?

    what's your biggest wedding planning annoyance? not living in same city as the wedding, not having any of my bridesmaids in the same city as me and only 1 in the same state, the lost art of RSVPing, and just all the litte freaking details!

    what do you wish your fiance would understand? That everything isn't just magically going to "work out". If it all does go off without a hitch, it will be  because of hours of meticulous planning on my part and not because it all just "worked out".

    if you could have your way, what would your wedding *really* be like?     Not much different. Of course if money wasn't a concern at all I may have done a few things differently, but I'm happy with everything I have planned for this weekend!

    Three days :)
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  • AngieEric13AngieEric13
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    Who are you most dreading having at your wedding? Who??? Oh geeze! My FI cousin. He is dreadful! Hope he never sees this :)

    what's your biggest wedding planning annoyance Not having information at my fingertips. We live in BAMA and I always have the urge to go "check something out" but realize I'm 6 hours away!

    what do you wish your fiance would understand? That things COST MONEY! And of coooourse we need custom made linens!

    if you could have your way, what would your wedding *really* be like?     I love the way it is panning out so far :)


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  • OpenHeart0117OpenHeart0117 member
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Comments 25 Love Its First Answer
    Ahh this is a fun idea ! 

    Here we go ....

    who are you most dreading having at your wedding?
    A few of my guests who are bringing "random" friends in place of their spouses or significant others that can't make the trip for whatever reason. Even though the invites have not gone out yet, the emails & text messages have already been sent notifying me of the "swaps". Not asking me about the swaps, but telling me, LOL.  " Oh Hubby Can't come due to a business conference, I am bringing so & so with me, Do you remember her ? " I really wanted my wedding to be intimate and private with only those "I" chose to invite. I really thought a destination wedding would ensure that.
    Silly me.

    what's your biggest wedding planning annoyance?
    The lack of RSVP etiquette. (See above). People feel like a wedding invitation is a transferable ticket or something & since 100% of my guests are traveling I don't necessarily want them traveling alone, but damn. Nine times out of 10 you know someone else that is coming to this wedding.  I am already dreading the number of cards I get back with extra people added in !!
    I hate the fact that I have to be the one to initiate uncomfortable conversations with people who either don't know or don't care about wedding etiquette ! ARRRRGH

    what do you wish your fiancée would understand?
    Like someone said above, I wish he would understand that having a somewhat "seamless"  & "spectacular" wedding, doesn't "just happen" and things don't always just "work out".  Even if you spend a lot of money. There is a lot of planning, precision & execution involved & he just does not always get it.

    if you could have your way, what would your wedding *really* be like?
    I wish that I could afford to do everything I want, without fine tuning the budget every single week. LOL. I am tired of not eating out & having to say no to doing some things with our friends, so that we can pay for this wedding & not incur any debt, LOL.  I  just wish I could meet a rich benefactor, who would just toss me some extra cash, so that I can't pull the trigger on some of the things that I am now having to consider whether they are  worth it or not.  I do want the memories and the pictures, so I guess I just need to be big girl & suck it up, LOL.
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  • Penguin=lovePenguin=love member
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    I want in!!! 

    who are you most dreading having at your wedding?  I'm super paranoid that my mix of people from my past to present won't mix well or that no one may even come to my wedding.  The MOG has said on mutiple occassions that she doesn't think a lot of people will come especially my side of the family.  It hurts my feelings and makes me doubt myself. 

    what's your biggest wedding planning annoyance?  Like a lot of you girls, I'm having trouble planning a wedding in a city I don't live in with bridesmaids who don't live near me. Additionally, it has been made 10x worse by the MOG making everything more complicated than it needs to be.  I'm not a picky person and want to have everything done by now but she is SO picky and wants to see everything in person and wants to discuss every detial that pops into her head with me.  I'm dying!!!!

    what do you wish your fiancée would understand?  How stressful this process has been.  I've held some very stressful jobs and yet its this wedding that I'm sure is going to kill me. 

    if you could have your way, what would your wedding *really* be like?  Simple.  End of Story.  :) 

     

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