Okay, so our venue is booked, and so is our reception...We are planning on having a late morning wedding, and serving a picnic lunch at the reception...but we are doing our event on a dry campus,so we cannot drink, and we cannot dance...both rules of the college we are getting hitched at. Besides feeding them, what on earth else do we do? None of our people drink much, so the not drinking is really not that big of an issue...but other than dancing, what else do people do at receptions? My FH just suggested games...like apples to apples. We just want mingling and fun, and a relaxing reception, with a picnic theme. I am thinking of things like bubbles instead of rice, giving personalized flower packets at favors etc, and even having a bounce house for the younger kids...we both have young family memebers that will be attending the wedding...but what on earth do we do for the grown ups? Can we really just offer some background music and expect everyone mingle for a few hours as we make our rounds?? I infact already know the answer is NO! but I am just clueless as to what else to offer. Thanks so much for all f your feedback!!!!!