The basics of our situation are:
--My parents cannot help with the cost of the wedding. At all.
--His parents can only help a little.
--We don't have the funds either. (Trying to hop back into college, certifications, etc.)
--The family is too big to host a small wedding because then people would be left out.
--Big weddings cost more money than we want to spend.
So, we ultimately decided to go to the justice of the peace. My parents are ok with this. We are ok with it. His parents...eh, not as happy.
Now, family members have offered to throw us wedding showers. Are he and I still aloud to have these get togethers if we are only going to the justice of the peace?
One family member said, whatever we did, didn't matter to her.
One family member will be alright with it. (80% sure)
Another one said it's perfectly fine.
Help me.