In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_thank-notes-before-after-shower?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a4efd629-23eb-4eec-8e83-3f0cafd7e976Post:73e3ab40-7502-4b28-a57d-458f5d949898">Thank-you notes before or after shower?</a>: [QUOTE]I've seen variations of this, but not this one specifically. I can see who has bought stuff for us online, even though our shower isn't for another 3 weeks. Assuming I need to wait until they officially give us the gift to say thanks, right? I just had a lady ask her shower gift purchase for us had gone through, and although I knew that it had (because I stalked the registry...), I hadn't mentioned the gift to her because I was waiting for the shower. Do I write her a thank-you note now, or do I wait?? Posted by cac7777[/QUOTE]
Wait until you physically receive and open the gift.
The Bee Hive Est. June 30, 2007 "So I sing a song of love, Julia" 06.10.10 BFAR:We Defined Our Own Success!
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[QUOTE]I've seen variations of this, but not this one specifically. I can see who has bought stuff for us online, even though our shower isn't for another 3 weeks. Assuming I need to wait until they officially give us the gift to say thanks, right? I just had a lady ask her shower gift purchase for us had gone through, and although I knew that it had (because I stalked the registry...), I hadn't mentioned the gift to her because I was waiting for the shower. Do I write her a thank-you note now, or do I wait??
Posted by cac7777[/QUOTE]
Wait until you physically receive and open the gift.
"So I sing a song of love, Julia"
06.10.10
BFAR:We Defined Our Own Success!