Im getting married on October 13th 2012 and to cut costs my fiance and I decided to go with a DIY/Green theme. Problem is I am somebody who thinks i can do everything myself (Im even going to the extent of growing my own flowers for the bouquets and making the chandeliers for the reception). I do have other people helping out (for example: my mother and sister in law are making my dress) but i feel like if i give them too much to do, they'll see me as lazy. Am i nuts for thinking this? Just wondering.