I went home after my classes yesterday and drove back this morning, so I got to spend some time with my mom, FI's mom and the wedding planner.
I was sitting with FI's mom and waiting for my mom to get there and we started talking about what FI and I actually want. FI's mom was concerned that even though my mom was saying, "We want what Sarah wants" that it wasn't actually happening.
There's been a fairly large drama about the time of the ceremony and how the colors I chose (wine red, black and white) dictate that. My mom and the wedding planner had pretty much forced me into an evening, indoor wedding even though FI and I have always wanted a late-morning outdoor wedding. When I told FMIL about this, she kind of freaked out and when my mom arrived she put her foot down and wouldn't let it go until my mom agreed to call the wedding planner so we could all talk about it.
I ended up getting my way. We're having a mid-morning, outside wedding. I did change my colors, but because the only thing that's been done in the wine red is Save the Dates, it's not that big of a deal.
I'm soooo relieved!