Are you guys doing a first look? I was scared to death to walk down the aisle, and was worried I was going to loose it because my dad wasn't there. THANK GOD for my uncle he said a couple jokes (mostly about my ridiculously cute and independent FG adn RB) to get me to smile/laugh then led me down. I tried to pick friends and close relatives out of the crowd to smile and/or wink at. It helped A LOT!!!
Breathe! And trust me after 1.5 yrs of planning it hits the week off (well it hit me on Wes) when you are running around doing last min. things, and yes no matter how little you think you have to do that will magically turn into a list! H was chilling at a buddies waiting for the rehearsal while I was running around town.
His list took less time than my list. haha divide and conquer is my best advice.
As for the vows, just remember to speak up. I am a super loud person and for once no one told be to speak shofter.
GL! Can't wait see pics and hear how it goes.