Okay ladies this is a headache and unneccessary stress that I don't need. Let me begin. On Monday I send my Maid/Matron of Honor an email letting them know that I have picked the days that my Bridal shower and Bachelorette parties can be held. So if they would like to start planning and getting things together with the other 3 bridesmaids in the WP. Well on yesterday my sister(Maid of Honor) informed me that Our Godsister (Matron) were talking a little and thought that it would be a great idea to have it at a restaurant. i know I can't tell them how to plan something that they are hosting. So I was like please tell me you guys are not thinking about making my guest pay for their own food if they want to eat... I'm like excuse me this s*** is tacky and is not cute at all. I don't care if it is a really nice place. I'm like you will not embarrass me or yourself. My sister was like that's what our Godsister which is already married did. Had it at a restaurant and people that came paid for their food and drinks. Honestly I'm not liking this idea what so ever, I don't care who did what? Please don't do it with mines. Once again I know I can't tell them how to plan these events but that's just horrible. Ladies, am I over reacting about this matter. What is your intake on guests paying for their food/beverages? What's wrong with someone's home, a club house, community center or even a conference room at a hotel.