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calindi
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Friend got engaged - dress shopping tips?
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Hi girls,
One of my best friends just told me she's engaged and I couldn't be more thrilled (I was literally crying when she called to tell me). I'm just so ridiculously happy for her! I'm getting married in September, so it's really special to me that we'll get to be brides together for a little bit.
Her Mom passed away back in high school, and I was by her side through all that. It's bittersweet that her Mom won't be here for this, and it's so important to me that this is a happy and special time for my friend.
My friend is curvy, I estimate around a size 14? She's a bit self conscious, and would prefer not to have something skin-tight. She envisions a scoop neck lace 3/4 sleeve A-line dress. She also don't have a very high budget, though I don't think she's put together actual numbers yet. I'm planning to help her beef up that budget if I can to make sure she gets a dress she feels beautiful in, but it still will likely be around a $1500 budget max.
Any suggestions on dress shopping? I'm a size 10 and there were dress shops where I could barely try anything on - I'd hate to take her somewhere where she can't even put any dresses on! Are there certain brands or dress shops where she'll be able to try on dresses, or have more modest styles that she'd feel comfortable in? She's based in Boston, and we can look anywhere in New England if you girls happen to have geographic-specific locations. Any tips on what to bring dress shopping? Mine was very different - it was just me and my Mom, and I brought a strapless undergarment.
Thanks in advance!
One of my best friends just told me she's engaged and I couldn't be more thrilled (I was literally crying when she called to tell me). I'm just so ridiculously happy for her! I'm getting married in September, so it's really special to me that we'll get to be brides together for a little bit.
Her Mom passed away back in high school, and I was by her side through all that. It's bittersweet that her Mom won't be here for this, and it's so important to me that this is a happy and special time for my friend.
My friend is curvy, I estimate around a size 14? She's a bit self conscious, and would prefer not to have something skin-tight. She envisions a scoop neck lace 3/4 sleeve A-line dress. She also don't have a very high budget, though I don't think she's put together actual numbers yet. I'm planning to help her beef up that budget if I can to make sure she gets a dress she feels beautiful in, but it still will likely be around a $1500 budget max.
Any suggestions on dress shopping? I'm a size 10 and there were dress shops where I could barely try anything on - I'd hate to take her somewhere where she can't even put any dresses on! Are there certain brands or dress shops where she'll be able to try on dresses, or have more modest styles that she'd feel comfortable in? She's based in Boston, and we can look anywhere in New England if you girls happen to have geographic-specific locations. Any tips on what to bring dress shopping? Mine was very different - it was just me and my Mom, and I brought a strapless undergarment.
Thanks in advance!
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Re: Friend got engaged - dress shopping tips?
Bella Sera Bridal in Danvers (30 minutes North of Boston) is a great place to start.... and maybe end. The staff are extremely nice and accomodating. Alfred Angelo is also in Danvers, but also have a location in Boston.
Like PP said, Davids probably has a great selection she is willing to overlook the poor service.
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David's does have a decent plus size selection. All in the $400.00-1000.00 range. I would STRONGLY suggest going during the week if you are going to go to Davids though. It's a madhouse on the weekends.
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Alfred Angelo all the way. She could even maybe find a Maggie Sottero gown...
As far as finding something she can try on......
I would look around online with her, and find some styles she thinks she likes, then find a salon that carries that designer, call them and see if they maybe have that dress or one similar and find out the size they have it in.
Seems like a lot of work, but it definitely sounds like you'll do anything for your friend.
Not that you need to hear it, but you're an awesome friend and she's very lucky to have you in her liffe; especially at such an emotional time in her life.
[QUOTE]I would suggest checking out the designer Mori Lee ( <a href="http://www.morilee.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.morilee.com/</a> ) and see where their styles are offered in your area. The plus size (ranges in size 16 - 32, called Julietta) line is beautiful and very well priced -- I got style 3072 and for under $1000 after tax, and I'm in Canada, so the prices would probably be a little cheaper in the states.
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my dress is a morilee. Size 18 and i absolutly ADORE my dress!!!
It's halter neck (no sleeves), empire waist, ivory lace. Fairly modest as wedding gowns go and I feel tall and slender and like a princess in that gown.
I spent hours and hours on dress sites looking at all the different dresses. I was in love from the moment I saw my gown on the website. Went to the store to try the sample (and a few others my sisters pulled for me). I knew right then and there I was wearing that gown. I then ordered it online and took it to a seamstress for alterations, rather than letting them overcharge me for it.
But doing most of my shopping online, I avoided most of the poor service at David's. Take a couple people you really trust with you and take charge of the situation- don't let the salesgirls bully you (and they will if you let them- she brought me 10 dresses, none of which were on my "favorites" list that she had. I finally got dressed and went into the racks and my dress was right there. no idea why she wouldn't bring it to me so I just took it and tried it on. My sister also had a david's salesgirl drag her out of a fitting room when she had nothing on, to give her a different slip or something. when my sister protested that her ass was hanging out, the girl said, "oh, we're all girls here.)
I would recommend that your friend does some online/magazine research first- particularly to know what style she might look best in for her body shape and what she WANTS. I'm inverted triangle so sleeves are bad for me, but if she's got bigger hips, that might be the right thing for her. I knew I wanted lace (but would have settled for chiffon) but that came from looking at hundreds of pictures of gowns before I even went shopping.
Lastly- have fun! You are a great friend and I hope you two have a wonderful time shopping for her wedding gown.