My future FI and I have been talking about engagement a lot recently and my sister is a jeweler. I came into fill out a credit app and had enough credit to get an engagement ring. She stepped into the back and secretly called him to get his okay and I picked out my ring - but he doesn't know I'm aware of all of this!
Did anyone know ahead of time they were getting engaged? I'm trying to figure out if this is okay! I've always wanted to be surprised, and I still don't know WHEN it's coming, but we had talked about using a cheap costume ring for the proposal and then shopping together afterwards. I guess I'm just trying not to feel guilty for knowing...without him knowing
Would you have preferred to not know, or was it nice having a bit of a heads up?