FI told me that his recruiter took him out for lunch today, just the two of them. It's not his boss or anything. He found the job through a contracting agency, and the woman called and asked him to go out to lunch (and he went). Evidently she said that she wanted to ''talk about the job", but it ended up being more just like chatting. I found it a little bit strange, but am not mad at him or anything. It just sounded a little date-like, and especially because she's not his boss or anything. Does this sound odd to anyone else, or am I just over analyzing the situation?
Also, how do you feel about your SO hanging out with other women one on one? When is it okay, and when, if at all, is it crossing the line with what you think is 'okay'?
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Re: SO and time with other women
I've heard of some people's fiance' getting angry when their 'woman' does a group project with a guy. That is over board in my opinion. That can't be helped.
And my mother gets upset when my dad does a work project with just another woman. I think that may be a little over board, since that is a little un avoidable.
Recruiters take people out to lunch to chat. Not frequently, but once in a blue moon to keep contacts. They network. She may want to know if he has any friends that needs jobs. He might not need a job now, but she wants to keep him as a contact for future job searches.
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BF doesn't hang out one on one with girls. But it wouldn't bother me if he did, because he does have some female friends. As long as he wasn't holed up in a room drinking the night away with one, or paying to take her out (like for dinner), or cancelling plans with me to spend time with a girl I'm pretty much okay with it.
From a different perspective, I have one very, very close guy friend who's very much like a brother to me. Justin doesn't have any problem with me spending time with him, even one on one. It probably helps that this friend was the one who introduced us, and J has known him for years.
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From what I read, it doesn't sound like you have any trust issues with your FI. It's more the recruiter's motives that you're questioning. And you have every right to question - while I'm sure it's as previous posters said, that it's normal and part of her job, I personally don't trust most women as far as I can throw them. There are some women who, for whatever reason, go after men in relationships. Thrill of the chase or whatever, I guess. That said, I trust my BF, so I sort of let out an evil cackle and go, "Well, she can give it her best shot, but it'll be funny cuz she's going to fail."
I just had lunch with one of my coworkers today. No one else wanted to head out to lunch. It's certainly nothing more than friends having lunch. He even helped me pick out a card for our other coworker who's getting married this weekend.
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If it would be something during his FREE time, that would seem sketchy to me. (Generally speaking).
I think if FI hang out with his exes I wouldn't feel completely comfortable with it. But it's never happened, so I don't know for sure.
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FBD can hang out with whoever he wants. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. It also doesn't bother him that most of my friends are male. I think it's secretly because he likes having the boys come over and play video games lol
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In other news, if I actually cared about my boyfriend hanging out with girls, I'd be the most hypocritical person in the whole world - I have way more male friends than female friends. I'm not giving them up for my boyfriend