Hi all,
So my fiance came home last night from his bachelor party and everything went more or less as expected. They didn't go to a strip club but were out at a casino and drinking. I had been told there was a shirt he would be wearing with a list of things he was supposed to try to get done... but of course no one would tell me what was on the list. After talking to my fiance (who WAS, to his credit, being upfront about telling me all the things on the shirt), I found it online:
http://www.zazzle.com/bachelor_party_groom_tshirt-235441754707534380
Now, I realize there is nothing super scandalous on there but he did do a lot of the things and it bothers me a bit. I don't want to be the "uncool" controlling fiance, and obviously it's already past so I can't do anything about it... but I really don't agree with this idea that because it's the bachelor party, this type of behavior is allowed. Obviously no one would do these things normally so why because it's labeled a "bachelor party" should it be permissible? I realize it's "tradition" and so guys think it's just what they should do but it's so dumb. I don't want to be mad at him or make him feel bad because he was being honest in telling me everything that happened but it does bother me.
What do you guys think? I realize I probably can't do anything now other than talk to him more about it but I just wanted to get some input and see what people think.