We are trying to cut corners where possible, so I am debating on doing electronic STD's to those who check their email often (basically, all of our friends) and having magnets made for those who don't (Grandparents, older family members that aren't very computer saavy...or don't own a computer at all, etc.). But then I question whether somebody will get their feelings hurt because they didn't get a magnet (I mean, I personally wouldn't care, but I know some people are like that). IDK - what would you ladies do? OH - and although I know it's probably posted somewhere a million times....how far in advance do you send STD's??