I got a call last night from a college friend who I invited to the wedding. She lives in North Carolina (the wedding is in Maine) and she's been planning to come back to MA to visit family and friends and also come up to Maine for the wedding.
She asked if she was invited with a guest since she wasn't sure how she'd be able to get to Maine for the wedding. I knew that she wouldn't have her own car since she was flying into Boston, but I really thought that maybe she'd borrow a friends car or make some other travel arrangements. I told her that right now we are at our limit and I couldn't say "yes" to another guest at the moment, but if we got a lot of "no's" that I could maybe add a guest for her.
Since the & guest thing was still unknown, she asked me to find out the price of a train that goes from boston-maine so I did. I also gave her the info for a cheaper hotel than the one we are staying at since she didn't want to have to spend a lot of $. I also assured her that there were plenty of cabs in the area that could take her from the train to the hotel/hotel to wedding/ wedding to hotel.
I'm really feeling weird about this, its almost like she wanted me to say "oh I'll pick you up in Boston on the morning of my wedding...no prob!"
I also thought of asking a family member/friend to pick her up at the train station, but I feel weird about doing that too!
Do I just let her make her travel arrangements, stay out of it from now on, and hope she makes it to the wedding?


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