Back story: FI's mom is not the greatest person in the world. She stole FSIL and FBIL social security numbers and racked up a TON of debt that is now on their reports. Now, we all try to give her the benefit of the doubt and start over. We were in constant contact until January when she quit talking to me and FI in general. Being as she lives in Georgia, and we are in Illinois, it was not easy to get a hold of her (phone calls, texts, facebook) and even then we had to call her boyfriend, who neither of us has ever met. They sent the RSVP as they were coming (I mean we have been engaged for over 2 years) so we obviously included them in the head count (it's his mom!). I texted her THREE times before I got a response if she was going to make it up for the rehearsal dinner on Friday when she replies that they wouldn't be making to either the dinner or the wedding because she was attacked by her cat that had rabies and had surgery on her leg and has to have her rabies shots this weekend. She ignores us, and FSIL who have been trying to make things easy for her. Instead, she leaves me to tell her son that she isn't coming to his wedding! He is pretty much done with her and it is just crap. After everything that she's done to his siblings and him it makes me more angry than was before at her! Sorry if some of this got confusing! Just needed to vent this frustration to someone and thank you for reading if you made it this far.