I'm the MOG. Long story so hang in there!
Colors are tiffany blue and black. 3 Bridesmaids can wear short dress of either color but 2 have already purchased black.
MOG goes shopping with Bride and picks out a lovely long dress in a color close to the correct blue. Bride sends me color suggestions, picks of colors, photo of mom's dress etc so I have something to go by. I go shop and find blue dress in pre-appoved color. Check with photos and color before purchasing. All is good. B & G approve. Walk out of store and get a text, " Sister, (MOH), is thinking about getting that color dress."
Call Bride talk about colors and sounds like she is encouraging MOH to go with black like rest of bridesmaids. OK, breath....
Then find out next week that MOB and MOH went shopping at same store I shopped at and they both bought the same color blue dress that I have in different styles.
So now MOH, MOB & myself, MOG, are all wearing the exact same color. Talked with Groom and expressed my not wanting to wear the same color. Colors should compliment - not necessarily match. They have talked about it and now the subject is off limits since they are not agreeing to some extent. I feel bad since all of the planning has been going well for them and now this dress issue has arisen. Bride says it's all good but I think that she's not being straight forward, but is just done emotionally with it all so I've backed off about it. Maybe she is fine with it. I truely don't know and don't want to upset her by bringing up the subject.
However I'm still not thrilled about this scenario. Do I drop it and wear the matchy-matchy dress? My luck the MOB will decide at the last minute to go back to dress one and leave me looking like I'm a bridesmaid, matching the MOH. Do I buy a back-up dress? Afraid to talk to Bride about it tho I know I should. Suggestions?