We're having a laid-back ceremony and reception in the same room with a buffet-style dinner. I wanted to have a table so the band could eat dinner too (there's a DJ through the ceremony and dinner with a band to follow). But it looks like the guest list has gotten bigger than I wanted. It's a small space and I just don't think there will be room for another table. There are picnic tables downstairs on a patio they could use, but Is it bad if they don't have a place to eat with us?