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Nervous

That GalThat Gal member
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in January 2012 Weddings
I am a person who never gets nervous or anxious... but now I am so nervous!!!  Its coming from everything- parents, in laws friends, everyone! Everyone keeps asking me about the seating. FMIL said "I wish you'd had gone over it with me before..." but we couldn't, because we didn't have time.  Everyone has their "make sure you do this for me", "make sure you have that".  I usually don't give a sh*t what anyone says, but I feel like at this point, I don't want people coming to up me Friday if things are up to their standards.  I'm so scared the day will fly by and I won't get to enjoy myself :(
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  • sassygirl5401sassygirl5401
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    Have your bridal party be your line of defense from everyone. The only standard your wedding has to meet is your own standard. Try not to let everyone else get to you.

    Just keep breathing. In a few short days it will all be done with and you can sit back and relax with your husband!
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  • That GalThat Gal member
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    Thats a good idea lol. I know they will take the heat for me :) Thank you!
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  • Beverly8Beverly8
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    I have been having the same problem, expecially since I have just finished my seating chart.... It seems that no matter what People have something to say about everything...

    This is a day for you and your FI, if everything is how you dreamed then nothing else matters!! good luck and have a beautiful time!!!!
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  • That GalThat Gal member
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    Thanks Beverly.. I feel exactly the same about the seating chart.  We found a good mix, but then someone always wants to "approve" it, in a way.  Its making me so worried.  I know I should just let it go because it is our day.  They are adults and they can get over it! I just wish I felt better.
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  • sassygirl5401sassygirl5401
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    I'm about to have seating chart issues lol. FMIL has already said so and so cant sit next to this person and that person doesnt like so and so. My thought is they can suck it up and deal for 4 stinking hours.

    They dont have to stay glued to their seats the entire time. They can mingle and move around and talk to who they prefer to talk too. Just keep that in mind and try not to let everyone's 2 cents get to ya! Laughing

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  • MeganNN12MeganNN12
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    My FMIL has my seating chart. I am going to pick it up from her tomorrow so I can work on the place cards. I will definitely be looking it over and changing anything I see won't work. But I only have my parents and my one bridesmaid from PA coming to the wedding. The rest of the guests are my FI's family and friend's of the family. They only have to sit in their assigned seats for a little over an hour. If they don't like where they sit they'll get over it. Don't stress!
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  • That GalThat Gal member
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    Thank you girls!
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  • hippoloverhippolover member
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    Take a moment to just sit back and observe. We did this while people were eating.  I would also recommend having someone to designate questions to. I had 2 helpers at the wedding and then 2 venue people. I just said, if you have a question, please see them. 

    It will be amazing!
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  • That GalThat Gal member
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    Thank you :) and congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • Rachael45Rachael45 member
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    We also did a seating chart and figured out that we just couldnt make everyone happy. We did the best we could and then just reminded everyone that the seating chart is only for dinner. Once the dancing starts the tables will likely get moved aorund a little anyway and people will be up and mingling. They just have to make it through about a 1 to 1.5 hr dinner :-) Once they realized that they were a lot calmer about the whole thing.
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