Okay knotties-I/we need an officiant...we only go to church on major holidays with whatever family member were with so it varies plus we don't want a heavy religious ceremony....more spiritual and romantic/funny you know the usual..I'm having a hard and overwhelming time looking online at strangers and am starting to get a little emotional about it since it can really make or break the experience for the two of us....help please :)ps. can't think of any friends or family to get officiated btw