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TMI Tuesday

Do you wear Lingerie for Fi? If yes how often?
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Re: TMI Tuesday

  • matuofmmatuofm member
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    edited December 2011
    If we're talking wearing a silky slip trimmed with lace to bed instead of yoga pants and a t-shirt, then yes.  It used to be the two or three times a week that I'd stay over at his place, but since we moved in together, I've gotten a little lazy about it.  I want to get back to wearing cute things to bed - it's too early in our marriage to get into a rut!  ;)

    But if we're talking about garments that are completely unsuitable for doing much more than being taken right back off?  Far less often.  Maybe once a month or so.  I love doing it - it's just much more of a production.
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  • edited December 2011
    I don't nearly as much as I used to.  It used to be at least once every couple weeks.  Now it is few and far between that I do that.  I've gained weight, so I am not as comfortable as I used to be.  I'm also stressed, which makes me do those things less.
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  • edited December 2011
    Ditto everything Melissa said. But when DH travels, I break out the yoga pants and my ugly but incredibly snuggly robe. It's so embarassingly hideous and unsexy, but I can't part with it.
  • matuofmmatuofm member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:c46ee32f-9110-4733-85f9-dcc4f2ac96e8Post:4e389da2-2119-4f59-b629-62710164b3c9">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't nearly as much as I used to.  <strong> I'm also stressed, which makes me do those things less.</strong>
    Posted by Allycat11[/QUOTE]

    This all the way.  In fact, funny story - the other day I sat DH down and said "I think I owe you an apology."  He got all worried and wanted to know why.  I said:

    "I've been thinking about it, and I'm pretty sure I wore sweatpants to bed on our wedding night."

    We didn't sleep at all the night before the wedding, because we were frosting cupcakes and baking cream puffs and stuff.  So when we got back to the hotel after the wedding, we seriously conked out.  We barely made it under the covers.  And for comfort, I grabbed the warmest, snuggliest thing that I'd packed: a pair of sweatpants.  In retrospect, I feel that that was symbolically a bad way to start the marriage.

    His response: "But they were <em><strong>white</strong></em> sweatpants.  So that's okay, right?" 

    :) I love that man.  :)
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:c46ee32f-9110-4733-85f9-dcc4f2ac96e8Post:3759c907-2be5-4ff9-b2d5-9820691a2cea">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : This all the way.  In fact, funny story - the other day I sat DH down and said "I think I owe you an apology."  He got all worried and wanted to know why.  I said: "I've been thinking about it, and I'm pretty sure I wore sweatpants to bed on our wedding night." We didn't sleep at all the night before the wedding, because we were frosting cupcakes and baking cream puffs and stuff.  So when we got back to the hotel after the wedding, we seriously conked out.  We barely made it under the covers.  And for comfort, I grabbed the warmest, snuggliest thing that I'd packed: a pair of sweatpants.  In retrospect, I feel that that was symbolically a bad way to start the marriage. His response: "But they were white sweatpants.  So that's okay, right?"  :) I love that man.  :)
    Posted by matuofm[/QUOTE]

    That's too cute.  I feel like I should pick up something new and sexy for Saturday night but honestly I have a feeling we are going to be too tired anyway. 
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  • Meegles4Meegles4 member
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    edited December 2011
    Not very often. I actually enjoy wearing that stuff, but FI has said it's not his favorite thing. Like, he won't turn it down or anything, but also likes it when I wear my usual t-shirt and PJ pants. So, I've gotten pretty lazy about it.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:c46ee32f-9110-4733-85f9-dcc4f2ac96e8Post:3759c907-2be5-4ff9-b2d5-9820691a2cea">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : This all the way.  In fact, funny story - the other day I sat DH down and said "I think I owe you an apology."  He got all worried and wanted to know why.  I said: "I've been thinking about it, and I'm pretty sure I wore sweatpants to bed on our wedding night." We didn't sleep at all the night before the wedding, because we were frosting cupcakes and baking cream puffs and stuff.  So when we got back to the hotel after the wedding, we seriously conked out.  We barely made it under the covers.  And for comfort, I grabbed the warmest, snuggliest thing that I'd packed: a pair of sweatpants.  In retrospect, I feel that that was symbolically a bad way to start the marriage. His response: "But they were white sweatpants.  So that's okay, right?"  :) I love that man.  :)
    Posted by matuofm[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I love this so much! lol it sounds like something my FI would say. </div><div>
    </div><div>I've never really worn lingerie so after the wedding that'll hopefully change but it won't be often... unless it's comfy. I have to be comfortable when I sleep, it's a requirement. I do like the idea of it being "special" too - so not everyday. I also don't wear make up everyday, so there's that...</div><div>

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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't wear lingerie too often but I have changed from the oversized T shirts and shorts to a nice silk gown (I got about 30 of those from the bridal shower) and he enjoys those but on holidays, date nights or just when I am feeling frisky or feel that DH deserves a special treat i pull out the good stuff. On days where he is working overnight or away from me I still pull out one of his old shirts and he is always happy to see me in that!
  • edited December 2011
    When I thought of this question to ask I realized how I myself had been slacking in this department. I use to do it all the time for Fi and now things have slowed down a bit. I actually still have an outfit from my boudoir photos he hasn't seen in person yet.

    We do have sort of a funny tradition together though. Our first Christmas together we were pretty new so I bought him a tie for work and wrapped it up with lingerie to give him. So now every year I buy Lingerie for Christmas. It usually just ends up in his stocking now.
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  • drewmwdrewmw member
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    edited December 2011
    Not very often... I usually try to on Valentine's Day, our anniversary, his birthday, and Christmas. It's pretty much because I'm not all that confident with my body, so it's hard to try and flaunt it. I'm in the process of losing weight and toning up, though, so I plan to do it a lot more often once I reach my goals :)
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  • vk2204vk2204 member
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    edited December 2011
    FI and I don't live together, we both live with our parents so that is a big fat no to lingerie. Once we get married I hope to do that for him once and awhile but not too often. Like Milsey said, I like the idea of it being for a special occasion and not just every day.
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  • missmelanie81missmelanie81 member
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    edited December 2011
    Not really. Its not FI favorite thing. He perfers a thong or something like that under my clothes. I mean Im sure he wouldnt say now if I showed up in bed with some on...but its not his idea of sexy. I actually think he thinks my scrubs I wear to work are sexier then lingere...lol
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  • MMRoberts11MMRoberts11 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:c46ee32f-9110-4733-85f9-dcc4f2ac96e8Post:6e98728d-b025-41eb-a1be-4ac236f550bb">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]Not very often... I usually try to on Valentine's Day, our anniversary, his birthday, and Christmas. It's pretty much because I'm not all that confident with my body, so it's hard to try and flaunt it. I'm in the process of losing weight and toning up, though, so I plan to do it a lot more often once I reach my goals :)
    Posted by drewmw[/QUOTE]

    This pretty much sums up me too.
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  • Mrs0toBeMrs0toBe member
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    edited December 2011
    Nope.  Doesn't stay on long enough to make it worth the trouble.  LOL
  • edited December 2011

    I like to surprise him with it...like yesterday when he got home from work (I took the day off), and he came home to me wearing something sexy.

    But usually I'll just wear panties to bed and nothing else.  Except for this past weekend...the furnace went out and it was too damn cold!

  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:c46ee32f-9110-4733-85f9-dcc4f2ac96e8Post:19a1c72f-a63e-4e8f-8147-10f380e7729e">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI Tuesday : I'm going to steal this idea if you don't mind? I'm tired of finding "things he likes" to put in his stocking. lol
    Posted by mtishawt[/QUOTE]

    <div>Steal away :)</div>
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  • edited December 2011
    Nope. I don't wear clothes at home and fi is happy. Now that's a TMI ; )   I just worry I am going to have a hard time getting used to clothes once we have kids. But we have a while before that's a issue.
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