My wonderful fiance has a wonderful 8 year old step daughter who will be our flower girl. We have a bit of a problem, though. We have a historic mansion complex in my small home town for the weekend where the wedding party can spend the night. My fiance's daughter is just devastated that she can't spend the wedding night with us. We've told her how important she is. We've as G rated as possible told her that we will be doing what married couples do to make babies so kid's can't watch. We've tried telling her we're just following tradition and that she is dad's first love.
I think she's scared of being in a big house without us. But what can we do? Anything we can say? Any thoughts are welcome.