Wow - I have been planning a wedding but I got a reality check when I was sent an invitation to the Brides Coffee during Graduation Week at West Point. The announcement said: This is a unique opportunity for young women who are about to join the military family. Speak with representatives from Army Community Services, Relocation Services and the Chaplain's Office. When Chris was accepted 4 years ago, we sure thought the war might be over by now! Jobless, moving and visiting with the Chaplain's office - sound like fun...not!