I need some ideas. FI and I both want to have a special part of the ceremony where we include my daughter somehow, recognising that we will now be a family and that FI will be promising to love her and support her, etc. We also want to give her something (that will come from FI) to symbolise this. We were thinking either a ring or a necklace... I'm not sure about a necklace because she already has a few necklaces and I don't want it to be another piece of play jewelry (even though we'd talk about its importance, of course), and since she's six a ring to fit her right now isn't a good idea. So I started thinking that maybe we could get a ring engraved for her in a grownup size and have it on a nice chain...? What do you think? Anybody else included their kids/step-kids in the ceremony somehow? TIA!