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  • Zims- sorry work is frustrating but it's a good thing you took it down. I'd never talk shiit on my job even if I hated it because of people seeing. I think most places could and would fire someone over it.
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    [QUOTE]Zims- sorry work is frustrating but it's a good thing you took it down. I'd never talk shiit on my job even if I hated it because of people seeing. I think most places could and would fire someone over it.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

    Ditto this.  Not going to get into it, but I have personal experience with this.  In general, it's better to consider anything you write as public domain because as soon as you write it, someone can take a screen shot and it exists forever.  I get mad at FI for this all the time because he doesn't really have a Facebook filter.

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  • I figured it didn't violate our social media policy because I had like one line about work. The status was more a comment on how I'm disappointed they're focusing on something as ridiculous as a FB page when there are other things they  could work on. I'm glad he had my back and my boss didn't see it but I looked at it more as a student being disappointed with the school administration not work. I'm more worked up over it than I should just been a rough couple of weeks. 
  • I get that zims, I do but if I had kids in the school where I taught and was mad as a parent, not employee, I still wouldn't be able to post anything. You know?
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  • Yeah I understand. This whole situation just sucks. Because of this it's gonna be harder for our department to sell that page. Just a bad situation
  • Yeah, that does suck. Are you still headed l Miami?
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    [QUOTE]Zims- sorry work is frustrating but it's a good thing you took it down. I'd never talk shiit on my job even if I hated it because of people seeing. I think most places could and would fire someone over it.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

    This exactly. But I am sorry its been frustrating for you lately. It's definitely hard when work has you frustrated/down and out since it tends to affect the rest of your day. I hope things get better soon.

    No vents for me here! I'm finally really excited about things, FI comes home tonight, and IL's will be in tomorrow! I'm really glad I'm finally getting excited. It's been hard with the events that occured last week/weekend/yesterday but I've definitely developed a new frame of mind. :) Yay for Saturdayy!!
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  • edited February 2012
    Yep. I found out a couple weeks ago. I'm really excited to go. My boss never saw the status and I am grateful he warned me. I'm stopping in between classes to fix and ad and he said we could talk about it. Something to learn from I guess
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : This exactly. But I am sorry its been frustrating for you lately. It's definitely hard when work has you frustrated/down and out since it tends to affect the rest of your day. I hope things get better soon. No vents for me here! I'm finally really excited about things, FI comes home tonight, and IL's will be in tomorrow! I'm really glad I'm finally getting excited. It's been hard with the events that occured last week/weekend/yesterday but I've definitely developed a new frame of mind. :)<strong> Yay for Saturdayy!!
    </strong>Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]

    I am so stinkin excited for you!!!!!!! Can't wait to see pics! :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : This exactly. But I am sorry its been frustrating for you lately. It's definitely hard when work has you frustrated/down and out since it tends to affect the rest of your day. I hope things get better soon. No vents for me here! I'm finally really excited about things, FI comes home tonight, and IL's will be in tomorrow! I'm really glad I'm finally getting excited. It's been hard with the events that occured last week/weekend/yesterday but I've definitely developed a new frame of mind. :) Yay for Saturdayy!!
    Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]
    I'm probably reading too much into it but I feel like co-workers only talk to me to be nit-picky (Sp?) or just work stuff. Don't socialize much with me and that sucks. I was really successful last semester (always at the top) and I don't know if it was a jealousy thing or what. Just wish it was different<div>
    </div><div>and yay for Saturday! Can't wait for pics!</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : I am so stinkin excited for you!!!!!!! Can't wait to see pics! :)
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>This exactly!! All your DIY's turned out amazing!!! I am so glad that you're getting excited :D</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : This exactly!! All your DIY's turned out amazing!!! I am so glad that you're getting excited :D
    Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
    Are your invites all done haha
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : I'm probably reading too much into it but I feel like co-workers only talk to me to be nit-picky (Sp?) or just work stuff. Don't socialize much with me and that sucks. I was really successful last semester (always at the top) and I don't know if it was a jealousy thing or what. Just wish it was different and yay for Saturday! Can't wait for pics!
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

    I can see where you might think that. Is that the only time they talk with you is when something is wrong? Maybe extend the olive branch and just causually ask them how there day is going every so often or if your running out for coffee ask if they'd like you to pick them up a cup. Sometimes little gestures like that go a long way and can ease that situation to a more friendly envoirnment. Maybe you could even sit down with your boss and ask what are some things that you are doing good on and some things you can improve with that way it encourages the positive too. I really hope things get better for you. I was in a horrible work envoirnment for over a year and it was extremely stressful and can take a toll on you.

    Thanks girls!! I can't wait to post pictures! I really hope everything comes together how I want, and if not - oh well. I certainely tried. :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : I can see where you might think that. Is that the only time they talk with you is when something is wrong? Maybe extend the olive branch and just causually ask them how there day is going every so often or if your running out for coffee ask if they'd like you to pick them up a cup. Sometimes little gestures like that go a long way and can ease that situation to a more friendly envoirnment. Maybe you could even sit down with your boss and ask what are some things that you are doing good on and some things you can improve with that way it encourages the positive too. I really hope things get better for you. I was in a horrible work envoirnment for over a year and it was extremely stressful and can take a toll on you. Thanks girls!! I can't wait to post pictures! <strong>I really hope everything comes together how I want</strong>, and if not - oh well. I certainely tried. :)
    Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]
    IT WILL!!!! Don't worry about a thing! Oh, and take it from me, rain on your wedding day is REALLY no big deal ;)!

    Have you been obsessing on the forcast like I did? LOL!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : I can see where you might think that. Is that the only time they talk with you is when something is wrong? Maybe extend the olive branch and just causually ask them how there day is going every so often or if your running out for coffee ask if they'd like you to pick them up a cup. Sometimes little gestures like that go a long way and can ease that situation to a more friendly envoirnment. Maybe you could even sit down with your boss and ask what are some things that you are doing good on and some things you can improve with that way it encourages the positive too. I really hope things get better for you. I was in a horrible work envoirnment for over a year and it was extremely stressful and can take a toll on you. Thanks girls!! I can't wait to post pictures! I really hope everything comes together how I want, and if not - oh well. I certainely tried. :)
    Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]<div>Whenever I see people I ask how they are or how's their day going or if they're filling paperwork out I say good job. It sucks when I try talking to some people (like last night at the sales meeting) I start talking and they just look away and start a new conversation :/ One girl really liked me last semester when she was new becauase she was her words "engaged to be engaged" and asked me wedding questions but now she is engaged and tries to compete so I never talk wedding stuff.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : IT WILL!!!! Don't worry about a thing! Oh, and take it from me, rain on your wedding day is REALLY no big deal ;)! Have you been obsessing on the forcast like I did? LOL!
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]

    <div>haha, she posted on FB yesterday about it calling for rain, so I'm praying it's sunny for her!!! </div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : Are your invites all done haha
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

    <div>yeah, I got them all done- the last of them for the Out of town/people I don't see regularly got mailed Saturday. I have to see how many out of town guests we are going to have before I invite any of my co-workers from my part time job at the ER. </div><div>
    </div><div>Obviously, I know some of the family that is definitely coming already, and I have heard from one person who can't make it. </div><div>
    </div><div>I'm wondering how you put the thing in your siggy to track it?</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : yeah, I got them all done- the last of them for the Out of town/people I don't see regularly got mailed Saturday. I have to see how many out of town guests we are going to have before I invite any of my co-workers from my part time job at the ER.  Obviously, I know some of the family that is definitely coming already, and I have heard from one person who can't make it.  I'm wondering how you put the thing in your siggy to track it?
    Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
    Here ya go<div><div>Invite Code for siggy</div><div>
    </div><div><img src=<a href="http://tinyurl.com/5okj57" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5okj57</a> /> 0 Invited so far!
     </div><div><img src=<a href="http://tinyurl.com/5e5xyn" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5e5xyn</a> /> 0 Are ready to party!
     </div><div><img src=<a href="http://tinyurl.com/5acwqr" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5acwqr</a> /> 0 Will be missing out!
     </div><div><img src=<a href="http://tinyurl.com/65h7dw" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/65h7dw</a> /> 0 Are MIA!
    </div></div><div>
    </div><div>You can change the wording</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : Here ya go Invite Code for siggy <img src= <a href="http://tinyurl.com/5okj57" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5okj57</a> /> 0 Invited so far!
      <img src= <a href="http://tinyurl.com/5e5xyn" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5e5xyn</a> /> 0 Are ready to party!
      <img src= <a href="http://tinyurl.com/5acwqr" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5acwqr</a> /> 0 Will be missing out!
      <img src= <a href="http://tinyurl.com/65h7dw" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/65h7dw</a> /> 0 Are MIA!
    You can change the wording
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>sweet :) I might throw it in once I start getting RSVP's back :)</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : IT WILL!!!! Don't worry about a thing! Oh, and take it from me, rain on your wedding day is REALLY no big deal ;)! Have you been obsessing on the forcast like I did? LOL!
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]

    Yes! Definitely have been, right now they're calling for severe storms on Saturday. Pooy!! Im hoping to doesnt storm until late that night or early that morning, but I'm sure it will. Who knows. Worse case, we can put our clothes on another day and get pictures taken again in them. I'm trying to just let it all go now and I think I'm doing okay with it. Whats going to happen is going to happen, ya know? I'm just going to focus on making sure the house is super clean for the IL's. :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : sweet :) I might throw it in once I start getting RSVP's back :)
    Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
    Yay! :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Since it disappeared... : Yes! Definitely have been, right now they're calling for severe storms on Saturday. Pooy!! Im hoping to doesnt storm until late that night or early that morning, but I'm sure it will. Who knows. Worse case, we can put our clothes on another day and get pictures taken again in them. I'm trying to just let it all go now and I think I'm doing okay with it. Whats going to happen is going to happen, ya know? I'm just going to focus on making sure the house is super clean for the IL's. :)
    Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]

    I truly thought it was impossible to get good wedding pictures in the rain, but we so did.
    I also think I want to do a TTD shoot, however. Because there are no pictures of just me and the dress in all it's awesome glory lol.

    But, seriously, good for you for having that attitude about it! I sincerly hope you did have your moment of "OH CRAP" in regards to the weather, because I did a week prior, got it out of my system, and was like "mehhhh, who cares" the day of.
  • OH Mother fucck I have a vent.
    Nothing is coming easy with this whole getting my marriage cert/changing my name issue. I FINALLY got the damn cert, and went in just now to SS to get it changed, and turns out that since my Birth cert. and SS card spell my first name wrong (Ana vs. Anna) I have to come back WITH my birth cert. to prove that Ana is the correct spelling. I am sooo fucking sick of this stuff. Can I JUST get my name changed?!?!ARG.

    So, since my birth cert. looks like it's been chewed to bits, I fear they will reject that copy and make me get a new one. (They almost rejected it when I went to get my passport.)

    I need to get this all done ASAP before that damn Nicaragua trip. Kinda freakin out.
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    [QUOTE]OH Mother fucck I have a vent. Nothing is coming easy with this whole getting my marriage cert/changing my name issue. I FINALLY got the damn cert, and went in just now to SS to get it changed, and turns out that since my Birth cert. and SS card spell my first name wrong (Ana vs. Anna) I have to come back WITH my birth cert. to prove that Ana is the correct spelling. I am sooo fucking sick of this stuff. Can I JUST get my name changed?!?!ARG. So, since my birth cert. looks like it's been chewed to bits, I fear they will reject that copy and make me get a new one. (They almost rejected it when I went to get my passport.) I need to get this all done ASAP before that damn Nicaragua trip. Kinda freakin out.
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]
    I'm in the process of getting a new birth certificate. It took a while for my mom to get them so she laminated them then found out that voids them. So I'm getting a new one for my SS
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