Does anyone else...

CFM102012 · July 2012

find themselves to be overly emotional? I've always been an emotional person but lately it's in high gear. The tiniest little thing will have me tearing up and I have to fight to not cry. I start thinking of how long I've waited for this and now the wedding is only 95 days away...and suddenly I'm crying.

My dad showed me a video the other day of our church organist and one of the other church ladies playing an organ/piano duet of Canon in D (which I'll be walking down the aisle to) and I had to make him stop the video because it was making me cry. I'm going to be a huge mess on my wedding day. I would understand it more if I were still living with my parents and the wedding meant moving out and leaving them behind. I've been living with FI for almost 4 years now and see my parents fairly regularly. Please tell me I'm not alone in this...

I need to go grab some tissues....

Alisha9544 · July 2012

I've been alot more emotional lately. My poor FI probably thinks I'm going nuts. A lot of little things have me fighting back tears. Maybe we just all need to sit down & have a good long cry. lol

DanaOcNy · July 2012

I've been so emotional over everything! All I have to do is think about the first time FI will see me or the father/daughter dance & I get teary eyed!!! I am definitely going to be a mess on my wedding day!

Alisha9544 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_does-anyone-else?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:2e9c09f9-dcd1-4f7b-95ac-ebb0664ca38fPost:181038e9-e343-4732-8259-d7265d5b2890">Re: Does anyone else...</a>:
[QUOTE]I've been so emotional over everything! All I have to do is think about the first time FI will see me or the father/daughter dance & I get teary eyed!!! I am definitely going to be a mess on my wedding day!
Posted by DanaOcNy[/QUOTE]
Dang it! Thanks for making me cry lol Those are the thoughts that really get me too.

fjw2012 · July 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_does-anyone-else?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:2e9c09f9-dcd1-4f7b-95ac-ebb0664ca38fPost:34fb7149-16ea-46e4-b4ea-9e1bbb0f4c68">Does anyone else...</a>:
[QUOTE]find themselves to be overly emotional? I've always been an emotional person but lately it's in high gear. The tiniest little thing will have me tearing up and I have to fight to not cry. I start thinking of how long I've waited for this and now the wedding is only 95 days away...and suddenly I'm crying. My dad showed me a video the other day of our church organist and one of the other church ladies playing an organ/piano duet of Canon in D (which I'll be walking down the aisle to) and I had to make him stop the video because it was making me cry. I'm going to be a huge mess on my wedding day. I would understand it more if I were still living with my parents and the wedding meant moving out and leaving them behind. I've been living with FI for almost 4 years now and see my parents fairly regularly. Please tell me I'm not alone in this... I need to go grab some tissues....
Posted by CFM102012[/QUOTE]

I heard Cannon the other day and I cried too, and I'm not even walking down the aisle to that song! Although I'm considering it now.

Bryan&AmyC · July 2012

Yes! And over every little thing too! NWR, I fell in love with a 6 year old overweight cat at a pet store a few months ago and I have been checking regularly to see if she's been adopted. FI says we are at our max with 2 cats, but I worry she won't get adopted because of her age and health. Well FI took me to the pet store over the weekend and even though I knew she'd be there, when I saw her, I lost it. We had to leave the store and I sat in the car and cried for 15 minutes! WR, our first dance song has been really making me an emotional mess lately. It never used to, but recently I just can't hold it together when I hear it. I'm normally an emotional person, but I've never been this emotional before!

achiduck · July 2012

I find that I'm more emotional when watching proposal videos or wedidng movies.

mrshall1027 · July 2012

I've never been an emotional person; actually that was a major complaint my ex-husband had. But with FI, it's different. I'm not only emotional because I am happy and can't wait to have him as my husband, but I'm also emotional because of all the stress I'm starting to feel. This past weekend, with my stepdaughters party, I started to get overwhelmed when trying to get everything done before people started showing up. Then I started thinking about how I was going to feel when the wedding came around which made me even more overwhelmed! I just had to hide for a minute and cry.

It's ridiculous! But, I'm glad I am not the only one

ericaandtom2012 · July 2012

I'm an emotional mess all the time, especially with sappy songs (any Taylor Swift song on the radio has me in tears halfway through), but it's in high gear right now. Every time I think about any part of the wedding - be it my walk down the aisle, our first dance, or anything else, I get teary eyed. I think I'm going to have to forgo mascara day of, or else I'll have racoon eyes for all of the pictures! Luckily I have naturally long and dark eyelashes.

[Deleted User] · July 2012

Same here! I am not super girly or sappy or romantic, but I cry at the tiniest things these days!

staycb01 · July 2012

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[QUOTE]Yes! And over every little thing too! NWR, I fell in love with a 6 year old overweight cat at a pet store a few months ago and I have been checking regularly to see if she's been adopted. FI says we are at our max with 2 cats, but I worry she won't get adopted because of her age and health. Well FI took me to the pet store over the weekend and even though I knew she'd be there, when I saw her, I lost it. We had to leave the store and I sat in the car and cried for 15 minutes! WR, our first dance song has been really making me an emotional mess lately. It never used to, but recently I just can't hold it together when I hear it. I'm normally an emotional person, but I've never been this emotional before!
Posted by Bryan&AmyC[/QUOTE]

Aww that made me tear up!! Are you going to adopt the kitty?

BrittneyRN · July 2012

For me, no. But, then again, I'm not a super emotional person. FI is more so than I am.

wendyjane1281 · July 2012

Yes! OMG! I have never been overly emotional either. But with the wedding so close now, I am starting to stress with making decisions! I tear up just watching Say Yes to the Dress. I almost lost it in Dillards cause I couldn't decide on what jewelry I wanted to wear Not only am I only 81 days away from marrying the love of my life, but I am also processing the news that my Dad has a weird, incurable kidney disease and won't be able to receive a transplant. On one hand is this happy wonderful occassion and on the other hand is this horrible ordeal. All this adds up to me becoming seriously over emotional.

lv2011 · July 2012

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[QUOTE]I've never been an emotional person; actually that was a major complaint my ex-husband had. But with FI, it's different. I'm not only emotional because I am happy and can't wait to have him as my husband, but I'm also emotional because of all the stress I'm starting to feel. This past weekend, with my stepdaughters party, I started to get overwhelmed when trying to get everything done before people started showing up. Then I started thinking about how I was going to feel when the wedding came around which made me even more overwhelmed! I just had to hide for a minute and cry. It's ridiculous! But, I'm glad I am not the only one :)
Posted by ystaalenburg[/QUOTE]

THIS! Exactly. I never used to be emotional around my ex. With FI, lately, little stupid things I wouldn't have thought twice about make me teary-eyed. For No Reason! It's ridiculous. Most of the time, I can hold it in, but sometimes it'll just hit out of nowhere. For instance, Sunday we were watching Next Food Network Star and toward the end when they were making cuts, Alton Brown started crying (totally not a dude that cries), and it just got to me. FI started laughing at me, but was sweet and gave me a hug. But seriously, this needs to stop or come October 20th, I'll be a sobbing wreck <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" title="Undecided" />

CFM102012 · July 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Does anyone else... : THIS! Exactly. I never used to be emotional around my ex. With FI, lately, little stupid things I wouldn't have thought twice about make me teary-eyed. For No Reason! It's ridiculous. Most of the time, I can hold it in, but sometimes it'll just hit out of nowhere. For instance, Sunday we were watching Next Food Network Star and toward the end when they were making cuts, Alton Brown started crying (totally not a dude that cries), and it just got to me. FI started laughing at me, but was sweet and gave me a hug. <strong>But seriously, this needs to stop or come October 20th, I'll be a sobbing wreck</strong>
Posted by lv2011[/QUOTE]

<div>Amen Sista!</div>

goatlady12 · July 2012

I'm actually better than I was a couple months ago. My BC was making me crazy so they changed it and now I finally feel normal again. But I was totally crying at all wedding related things, even commercials!!

jessiflower · July 2012

I have been feeling a little over emotional but mainly I have periods of overly stressed. All the sudden I feel overwhelmed...My dad passed away at the begining of May and I'm trying to deal with his family (whom I'm not close to) and the estate and planning a wedding that me and my FI are doing pretty much everything ourselves....plus the three children we have (we are blended 2 daughters from me and 1 son from him) and all of the birthdays fall between now and the wedding (10-19-12) and school will be starting here in a few weeks for the kids and we have camping trips planned with our MOH and BM and their kids....I'm making all the flowers (oragami) and we are making a LOT of stuff and it just feels like we are behind, even though I know we aren't....I just get really overwhelmed and its like I'm having an anxiety attack or something....I feel better just typing it out

in case anyone is reading this....I think its helping to just be on here and hear that I'm not the only one feeling this pressure....

huskerfan246 · July 2012

Yes very! Especially when I hear the song I'm going to walk down the aisle to or our first dance song. And I hear them alot because my FI plays them all the time around here! Sometimes I have to walk away and pretend i'm busy so he doesn't see my face, lol.

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