Hello fellow soon to be brides! Our wedding is in May of 2013. We have agreed on pretty much all details for the wedding except for one thing, the cake! Our relationship is on the line because my FH thinks i don't respect his opinion. My inlaws offered to pay for our cake until they found out it was made by My soontobe sister in law's mother. My FH inlaws don't want her to because "they have an issue with her". Nothing specific but just say that they don't like her personality. My soontobe inlaws then recommended their great aunt to make the cakewhich is very old fashioned,and i prefer something modern but I told them I wanted to stick with who I already booked. Once I told them that, they decided to back out and not help pay for the cake! I'm stuck, should I call the lady I booked and UNbook her to make the inlaws FH happy or go with what makes me happy? I will even pay for the darn cake myself, that's not even the issue...HELP??