Hello all! As some may know, we recently moved to the east coast from LA. We found a shul that we will be joining so that's great. Our rabbi is coming from LA to marry us, which is great as well. Yesterday, the rabbi of the new shul offered his services and to have the service in the main chapel. That is pretty awesome; but there's an open invitation that all congregants are invited to attend the religious ceremony. I would be thrilled to share our special moment with new friends; however it is not in our budget to serve 150 plus people for the dinner reception, when we've been planning at most around 30 people. I've been told that you can serve cookies, cake and punch after the ceremony as a token of good will and appreciation for those who attended. Then the people are invited will go to the reception. I am unsure of the correctness on this and I am hoping some of you can let me know from experience. Thanks everyone!