I am about a month and a half out from my wedding and my mother in law has been wonderful through the whole process, but now all of the sudden I kinda feel like she wants to take over! For example, my bridal shower is coming up the 21st, all along it has been being planned by her and my friend. Today I found out that a while back my mother in law cut my friend out of the process, and has been working on it with her sisters! I wanted my friend to be in on it and it meant a lot to me that she had volunteered to help out with the planning, even though she is not in my bridal partry.
My bridesmaids are a completely opposite problem, they are never able to make themselves available to help out with anything! Granted, they are in school and one is in the military, but I can never even get ahold of them to make arrangements to help out with anything, and therefore I am stuck doing it all myself.
What can I do?!?!?!