OK, So here is the deal...I know that it is the MOH's responsibility to plan the Bachelorette Party, but I want to know if it would be rude to tell her what I want? I'm not the clubbing type who wants to go out, get drunk, and stare at half-naked men. I'd rather have a girls night out...Maybe rent a lake house for a night and go to the spa
However, I do know that this idea is a bit more pricey than the traditional party. I plan on paying for part of it but hope that my other bridesmaids will pitch in as well. Do you think it would be rude to suggest what I want or should I just let them plan the whole thing and be a surprise?? Thanks!!