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October 2012 Weddings

Organizing a carpool?

So here's the story ... two of my former roommates are international students and don't have their license or a car. The third is US-born and has both, but isn't sure she can come. The first two definitely want to come, but without the third they don't have a way to get there.

Would it be a breach of etiquette to ask another guest I know is coming from the same city (about 2 hours from the ceremony) if they'd be able to give a ride to my former roommates? I'd love for them to be there but I won't have time to make the 4 hour round trip to pick them up and drop them off. I gave someone a carpool to a friend's wedding because of the same situation and I didn't find it weird at all but I'm not sure about asking someone else.
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Re: Organizing a carpool?

  • I would say yes if a bride asked me but I wouldn't be happy about having to drive 2 strangers. Were either of them staying overnight? Any trains or busses they could take to somewhere closer? I'd probably accept that they may not come.
  • No, they aren't staying overnight. The city we are getting married in is very rural, there are no busses that run within an hour of it.
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  • I think it depends on how easy going / laidback the possible driver is, only you can answer that.  I'm with you though, it wouldn't bother me in the least.
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