So I read a whole bunch of negative comments and feedback about doing a honeymoon registry... So, my question is, if I want to be polite and use good ettitique (sp?) how do I ask for monetary gifts instead? Is there ANY polite way of doing that? We are not going to be registered anywhere, just hoping that people will give us a small cash gift to help with the honeymoon... Please help! And I dont mean any disrespect to anyone! I want to be delicate with the matter here! My FI and I are older, on our second marriage both of us and dont need pots and pans, but some help with the honeymoon (since we are paying for everything) would be sublime.