My step dad works for a photography company and is so generous in providing the photography for our wedding. When I met with our photog to go through all of the plans, he kept asking what my step dad was going to be doing in the wedding...(since he has a relationship with him)
...I hadn't even thought about him! (other than getting him a bout)
Back story: He has been married to my mom since I was 8 and they have 3 children together. My mom is crazy...so I didn't live in the house very much, but he was so wonderful to me and treated me with love/care with out trying to take the place of my dad. I would say we have a pretty good relationship. (except when we went on a family vacay with out my mom and he was a little crazy too) His/my mom's relationship is NOT very good. She was mad when I invited his family to the wedding and it seems like off again on again they're getting a divorce. Since I've gone to college my relationship with my mom has improved in the way that I accept two things A.) She's my mother and I can't chang it B.) She's crazy so don't really ask her anything deep or rely on her. But I still go home all the time to visit my siblings and everything is A OK.
I am SO close with my dad. He was there for me the whole time my mom was crazy (which was my entire life haha) and even now we talk a lot and he helps me with any problem I have. He's obviously walking me down the aisle AND doing the father/daughter dance.
But I want to involve my step dad with out making my dad a little upset (and if I do involve my step dad I would have to involve my step MOM who is a whole other story) and with out making my mom mad (which is would defiantly) Maybe something little? Not a dance and defiantly NOT co walking me down the aisle...but idk what else!
Ideas?