Hello Ladies!
I am lookin for some feedback on the catering for our event home reception.  Im not sure if I am going to have a catered buffet dinner OR have an old-fashioned beach bbq?  My mom and several friends thought it would be so much fun to have a bbq style dinner since the setting is going to be more relaxed and intimate at the event home.  I like the idea of a bbq style reception but dont if its frowned upon or not?  I am ALL about a bbq or summer cookout, but this is my wedding day and am unsure of how I feel about it for such an important day. 
I mean, I dont want my guests thinking "how tacky is this" or something like that?  Can you fellow brides please give me your opinions and feedback on this?  I can tell you that we are considering a white tent for the reception but nothing tooooo formal.  Brent and I are very laid back beach-goers and dont want anything too uppitty for our tastes.
Thanks!
Charlene