I know it's traditional to give a gift to your MOH (and BM) as a thank you for your shower or stagette and all the assistance they've given you during your wedding planning.
But what if they haven't given you a shower or a stagette, and haven't helped with any of the planning?
What if it's a non-traditional ceremony (technically a vow-renewal, but that's another story), so there's no signing of papers and there won't be speeches to give? But since she's my oldest and closest friend, I would like her to be in our wedding photos.
Yes, my "MOH" is flying in for the ceremony (staying with family), and getting her own dress (a black cocktail dress that either she already owns or she may wish to buy a new one), but do I still need to get her a gift?
What about my other friend who stood in as my witness at our elopement? We took her out for a very nice dinner afterwards, but did not buy a special gift.