Try Marines Memorial Club. My friend planned a wedding there for $22K. The all inclusive part is tough, my suggestion would be to look into hotels. The Ritz is really nice, and not super expensive. Good luck, let me know what you find!
Maybe look into Wedgewood Banquet facilities. They have pretty much all inclusive and are reasonable. not sure if there is one in SF but def many in the area.
There are many location that are all inclusive that will fit your budget- take a look at http://www.idovenues.com/- if you can get your guests count down jsut a bit it will open up you possibilities-
Headlands center for th arts Solage Hotel Niko Wente Vineyards
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http://www.idovenues.com/- if you can get your guests count down jsut a bit it will open up you possibilities-
Headlands center for th arts
Solage
Hotel Niko
Wente Vineyards
these all may work
If you are looking for veneus - check out http://www.idovenues.com/