Hi ladies,
I'm in a bit of a pickle. My FI and I were trying to have our bachelor/bachelorette parties on the same day for many reasons. One of which being that it seems kind of romantic in a weird way, and we'll both be focused on having fun. My fiance has already been planning his on Saturday the 10th. Practically every other weekend between now and the wedding is booked. My bridesmaids seemed ok with that, too.
Until now.... I got an email from my MOH asking about doing it on Friday instead?? My concern there is that I work until at least 5PM, so Fridays are tough for me. And with all of the time I'm taking off for other wedding stuff I don't have any more time to take to leave early that day. How much more can I insist on doing it the 10th? They're trying to keep it a surprise except for the date, and I'm really honoring that, and I know they're the ones planning it so I'm also trying to keep their feelings in mind. I'm so torn! Any thoughts? Am I being a bridezilla and unreasonable?