A few nights ago at work I ran into my one of my BM's friends. Come to find out he and his fiance are getting married the same day as me. His wedding is at 6 and mine is at 7. So yesterday my BM sent me a facebook msg asking what time my wedding is at so I told her. She was like "you have to change it" so I told her it wasn't happening. Then she proceeded to tell me that her friend's is at 6 so I responded by saying "well I guess you have a decision to make." Funny how she stopped responding then.
I haven't gotten to talk to my mom about it yet, but I asked my MOH and another BM their thoughts on the conversation and they both agree that she knew they were both at night so how would she possibly think she could go to both, esp. being my BM. And they also agree that if they were me they'd rather know now than down the line if she decides to back out. Now I know that if she chooses him over me then she's not as good of a friend as I thought she was and I wouldn't want her in my bridal party if that's the case. I know I still have a year to go and it will all work out in the end, but it's just bothering me. FI is telling me I'm being a bridezilla and making a mountain out of a molehill (which is probably the case), but would you feel the same way?