My FSIL was suppose to get married last June. She found out she was pregnant right after he proposed and before they set the date and started planning. My FI proposed to me 3 months after. Well about 3 or 4 months before their wedding she decided she didnt want to be pregnant during there wedding so they delayed the wedding till further notice. She had all of her planning done and venues booked and everything down to the cake and food. Well about 3 months ago she was trying to talk me into doing a double wedding and I kept turning her down. Now she has decided that she wants to have the wedding 2 weeks before mine and is changing her stuff to sorta what I have decided. I just feel like I am being upstaged. I dont want guests to think that we have copied her(most of them will be attending both weddings) and I feel like I cant tell my MOH what we are doing because she is also her bridesmaid and I know she has said to me a few times that FSIL is doing something this way and it is cute.(Not like she is trying to get us to do the same she is just throwing ideas out there)