Uninviting a guest? Really!?

SCogs18 · March 2012

So I got a text from my FMIL today asking me if I had started addressing our invitations yet and "when is the deadline for uninviting someone? I am considering uninviting a friend and replacing her with someone else due to her 'bad behavior' and I need to know by when I need to make that decision."

REALLY!? Come on. I just told her that I hadn't started addressing invites yet, but that we had already sent save the dates to everyone. My parent's are hosting the wedding, uninviting someone would make them/me look awful and it's so so rude. Sometimes she just amazes me.

BMcLeodTeam · March 2012

Gotta love some people's complete lack of etiquette!

mamameech · March 2012

wow. Some people seriously lack a filter.

SCogs18 · March 2012

Although I am very curious to know what she considers "bad behavior." She treats me and FI pretty terribly so this friend either did something truly terrible, or she is being totally unreasonable.

volleygurl0306 · March 2012

I would tell her that you won't uninvite someone you sent a save the date to (I'd be the same way). If you can accommodate the new person, I'd let her add it. But, tell her wedding invitations should be reserved for people who are important and timeless in your lives and you hope she has used the appropriate amount of discretion. It's a little snarky but I know she drives you nuts so she deserves it.

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