Ok now I want honest opinions here cuz I'm truly curious! I don't want to be rude but I also don't want to compromise on my wedding if I don't have to. My fiance and I have been engaged for over a year now and are planning a shabby chic rustic barn theme wedding for June of 2012. I've been very close to his sister since FI and I started dating but we've had are disagreements for sure. She's also one of my bridesmaids. Two weeks ago her and her boyfriend got engaged and I was super happy for them! She informed me that they were thinking about getting married Summer of 2012 also! Great that's awesome I was so excited that we could plan together and all that stuff. I start talking about the plans FI and I have been making (for the past year) with her and everytime we talk she seems to get really upset and will ignore me. Oook... at this point I'm getting a little worried but FI tells me I'm just paranoid. . Well then she tells me they want a rustic barn theme as well. Ok that explains why she's upset. But I guess it's a bigger deal to her then I thought she just texted me saying that we need to talk and that my FI and I need to pick a couple things that are important to us and give up the rest so our weddings wont end up the same. I don't like confrontation or making people upset but this is my wedding and I want it how I've been planning it for a year now... idk what to do! Should I have to compromise on mine and my FI big day to please his sister?
